Testimonials & Bookings
Video Testimonial by Mars Gelfo, 12-Session Package Client:
Written Client Testimonials:
Chelan Harkin, Author
“If there’s one gift I recommend giving yourself, it’s working with Serdar Hararovich, a skilled, wise and trustworthy relationship coach I’ve been working with for the past few weeks. His method is one of a kind and I’ve been so impressed by the presence and depth of wisdom he brings to this work.
In the short time we’ve been working together I have received deep benefit and have noticed significant shifts in myself and in my way of relating that are thrilling and heartening.
Serdar is helping me discover a more connected, respectful, effective and collaborative way to relate and is majorly supporting the experience of new and more deeply rooted security in my system.
I’m feeling more at ease with ambiguity, considerably less anxiety about abandonment and I’ve been quicker to recover from reactive assumptions. In many cases I feel more resourced to check my assumptions and respond to them constructively. I’ve felt more peace in my system in general. I’m feeling less despondency and more possibility. I’m feeling more aware of my part in relational difficulty and am feeling more agility and trust in my capacity to do my part to encourage things in harmonious directions.
Serdar offers revolutionary relational guidance including a deeply helpful framework of understanding and practical approaches for dealing with conflict and creating relational safety and trust.
Each session with Serdar also includes a subconscious re-imprinting with the aim of helping the client establish secure attachment patterns. I’ve been blown away at how effective this has already been for me.
Working with Serdar has had significant positive impact for me in only a few sessions. Reach out to him.”
Gemini Ferrie, Love Coach For Women
”Holy wow, working with Serdar has been exactly what I needed at this time of my development. When we started our work together I felt I was living a very small life, captive by my comfort zone, and gripped by fear. I knew I was ready to overcome the anxious attachment wound that had brought me the misery I was in.
12 sessions later, I have tapped into the courage to speak my truth, shift my sense of safety back into myself, access a secure attachment with the Divine where I feel deeply supported and guided, with the confidence to know that no matter what happens, no matter how others show up, I’m ok because I can now get my relational needs me through collaborative conversations that come from a secure place inside, knowing I’m absolutely worthy of having my needs me and being loved the way I need in all my relationships.
I feel clear about what I stand for and my self-worth has reached higher levels that are motivating me to step it up in all areas of my life. I’m so grateful for this deep healing and transformation that will support me in showing up securely to receive all the love I enjoy sharing with people who are also invested in me as I am in them. ”
Anni P.
"Working with Serdar has really helped me to become more authentic and relaxed in dating. Dating has always been a process that brought up a lot of anxiety for me. I would ruminate about past dates, messages not responded and take interactions or the lack of them very personally. I would keep myself stuck by waiting for messages or validation whilst being too afraid to make myself vulnerable by expressing my needs and feelings.
The coaching sessions with Serdar, and the Ideal Partner Process and Parent Process, have helped me to understand and anchor what I actually need and want from intimate relating. I am becoming more and more clear on what my needs and boundaries and standards are when it comes to relating.
And through practicing expressing those in our coaching calls I am learning to express myself in a confident, calm and constructive way leaving me feeling empowered and clear.
I have started to really enjoy dating and had some beautiful and very new experiences of genuine connection and communication. And what’s most important to me is now being able to be vulnerable and open whilst feeling safe and authentic as I have my own back by advocating for myself in a loving way. "
Barbora Pocuchova
“I had a session with Serdar on how to follow my soul purpose and remove blockages. Serdar provides a calm and safe space truly listening, attuning and empathizing with you and by asking deeper questions unlocking the truths within yourself. We had a very nice and deep conversation - when in the beginning I felt uncertainty within me, I left the session feeling energized, inspired and full of trust. Would highly recommend Serdar if you are looking for someone who would help you to unlock the gates to yourself and your highest potential.”
Andrea Baird
“I’ve just finished 6 1:1 sessions with Serdar and appreciated how steady and calming his manner was no matter what emotional state I bought to the sessions.
I found it deeply healing just being heard and seen by his reassuring, male presence.
Serdar shared practical techniques and role-modelled scenarios and embodied clear, empathetic relating just by his interactions with me.
Working with Serdar, the almost unbearable intensity of my dysfunctional relating patterns eased so that I was able to move from survival to a more creative, hopeful, energised way of approaching life-long, seemingly intractable patterns.”
Eva Kaiser
“I met Serdar a couple months ago, and was immediately captivated by the calmness and kindness he radiates. We had some beautiful moments and conversations together and the other day he offered a beautiful session to my partner and I and helped us work through a miscommunication.
I felt like he really sees and hears you fully and responds with wisdom and compassion, whilst being crystal clear and non-judgemental. You’ll be left feeling calm and grounded.”
Nick Kenny
“He listened to my story calmly, picking up not just on my words but my feelings and emotional state. We then went into depth into some of the key areas that were causing the pain and practiced a self-love visualisation process that released a lot of the pain and tension I’ve held around this and past events. I feel like something has shifted in me, and I can thank Serdar from the bottom of my heart for helping me through this.”
Hina Moon
“I could feel so much groundedness, safety, unwavering presence, wisdom and connection.. allowing my authentic expression to flow with such ease and still feel the earthy river banks of his guidance and direction to a larger lake of possibilities that is possible for me and my perspective and further of relating with others.
I noticed excellent questions gently asked, which followed acknowledgement feeling deeply seen and met where I’m at in every moment, and with deep presence, like an encouragement of that part of me. A meeting. A safe space for that expression and a gentle space to open to new experiences and potential tools to empower me into a new future.”
Lisa Jane
“Your validation of the reality I was experiencing was empowering and helped me feel lesson alone in this issue. Voicing it aloud with an objective third party who wasn’t trying to sway or convince me of anything, was really empowering.
I feel as a result of his work with me, rapid energy shifts take place which have allowed deeper levels of self-love, self-acceptance, self-compassion and allowing to open and provide a greater sense of inner wholeness for me. I can feel that Serdar has a particular gift for bringing healing to the triggers and the wounded parts of the feminine with his loving masculine presence.”