— About —
Serdar Hararovich is a Relationship & Secure Attachment Specialist offering integrative, Attachment-based coaching and healing.
He supports both men and women to heal attachment wounds at the preverbal level, cultivate inner security, reclaim their deepest self, and develop the embodied skills required for deep, soulful, and secure love.
The common thread among his clients is a desire to go beyond the surface:
People tired of surface-level solutions, spiritual bypass, and flashy healing trends that ignore the deeper roots of relational struggles.
Those ready to do the kind of work that awakens their deepest potential - to master the art of true intimacy, emotional safety and secure relating.
Healing from a place of deep authenticity and self-acceptance - not performative masculinity or femininity.
By addressing the deeper roots of relational struggles, Serdar brings clarity and compassion to long-standing patterns.
His work helps untangle what can feel stuck for years - sometimes even decades - guiding clients toward lasting breakthroughs that previously felt out of reach.
Grounded, deeply attuned, and highly practical, his approach offers what many describe as years’ worth of progress in a fraction of the time.
Having lived with Insecure Attachment and Complex PTSD for most of his life, Serdar deeply understands the invisible barriers that block healthy intimacy and connection - and the profound impact this has on our lives.
His approach isn’t built on trendy concepts or just theory - it’s grounded in lived experience, backed by the science of attachment, and shaped by years of real-world results.
After a dedicated healing journey, he became Securely Attached himself (as verified by the Adult Attachment Interview process). This transformation fuels his dedication to offering grounded, effective, and personally attuned support - cutting through the noise of popularized healing trends to deliver breakthroughs that allow a person to reconnect with their true self, form secure bonds, and experience love that feels safe, deeply nourishing, and lasting.
— Training & Education —
A short list of trainings, bodies of work and/or approaches Serdar has been strongly influenced by:
Attachment Disturbances In Adults - Treatment For Comprehensive Repair (Daniel P. Brown, David E. Elliot)
The Neurobiology of Attachment, National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine
Attachment & Trauma Therapy for Adult Relationships (Dr. Diane Poole Heller, Dr. Terry Levy)
Attachment Communication Training (A.C.T.), Evergreen Psychotherapy Center
Shadow Resolution & Working With Introjections, Projections & Split Ego States - Kim Barta, Stages International
Treating Internalized Self-Abuse & Self Neglect, Relational Healing In Complex PTSD, Pete Walker
Serdar adds:
“I’ve been a passionate student of the human condition for over 22 years. Yet the work I do with my clients goes far beyond anything I was ever taught. There is no training that could have prepared me for the nuances of this work.What I offer is a unique synthesis: integrating lived experience, deep inquiry and decades of study - all with the specific goal of overcoming the limitations of conventional approaches, so that people no longer have to spend decades healing or overcoming old patterns - as so many have been struggling to do.
Genuine, effective healing & guidance is my life’s work. I offer it with humility, care, and a deep sense of responsibility.”