Does this sound like you?
✔ You’ve experienced painful, repeating relationship patterns that haven’t served you.
✔ You want to make sure your next relationship is the healthiest, most secure one ever.
✔ You desire to embody your most Secure Self - so that you can stop aligning with trauma bonds, emotionally immature partners or unhealthy patterns.
✔ You sometimes struggle to express needs, desires or boundaries in a healthy way - either having no boundaries (people-pleasing), or expressing them reactively (leading to conflict or disconnect).
✔ You’ve gotten hooked on people who were not an aligned match for you.
✔ You’ve felt frustrated about how partners and lovers choose to show up - or not show up.
✔ You’re ready to experience the deep, secure, soulful love you have always known is possible.
Introducing
Opening to Love
with Serdar Hararovich
An advanced, self-paced online training program to integrate Secure Attachment & embody the practical skills to find, nurture, and keep the love of your life.
Go beyond intellectual knowledge and “saying the right words” to develop the embodied skills of true intimacy.
🎥 9-Hour Video Lesson Library:
Instant Access to 87 Transformational Video Lessons
9 Hours of Structured, Bite-Sized Educational Material (Value: $1200)
📜 THE SCRIPTS:
50+ detailed, practical examples of implementing Secure, healthy relating to a wide variety of situations in dating & love (Value: $190)
🖥️ 20+ Homework Exercises
To support you truly taking the lessons with you and applying them to your life immediately. (Value: $500)
∞ Watch Anytime
You have lifetime access to the bite-sized Video Library and PDF guides, meaning you can come back to the material at any time. This will become an invaluable asset for you.
Previous Participant:
Fenix Grace (right-side)
“Soon after doing the course with you last spring, I started dating someone, and it has been the most fulfilling and secure relationship I’ve ever had. There was so much consciousness and communication in how it began, and our intimacy has only continued to deepen and grow over time so beautifully. It was honestly a bit of a surprise and unexpected since I did decide to start dating shortly after the course, but I did not expect it to go so well!
I feel like the work you and I did together in coaching and healing my attachment wounds from 2023-2024 and then the potency of doing the course with you really prepared me to choose a different kind of partner in my life, and I’m literally living the results of it now. I am so grateful.
I feel deeply met, seen, and supported by my partner in a way that I have never been available for before. Our communication and the way we move through conflict is so connected, and we stay on the same team. I regularly feel more secure and trusting. There is always more to work on, but I know I am available now for a deeper level of intimacy like I’m currently experiencing because of the work we did together.” - Fenix Grace, March 2025
$333 USD / €290 EURO / $515 AUD --- Full Access to all 7 Modules, Homework Exercises + Bonus Guides + "The Scripts"
Course Modules
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Module 1: Overcoming The 10 Roadblocks to Love
• The 10 Surprising Roadblocks Most People Don't See• The Ideas, Habits & Myths That Unintentionally Block Love
• The Difference Between Desiring Love - and Truly Being Open
• How Even Just One Roadblock Can Get In The Way Of Love
• The Practical Steps to Truly Overcome Each Roadblock At The Deepest Level and Open To Deep, Soulful, Secure Love
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Module 2: Intentional Dating & Conscious Intimacy
• What Are You Making Yourself Available For?• The Benefits of Waiting Before You Become Intimate.. and how to have that conversation collaboratively
• Grounded Intimacy & Non-Sexual Connection
• RBDSM: How to Have ‘The’ Talk
• The 5 Guidelines to Conscious, Soul-Deep Intimacy
BONUS: The Psychology of Self-Fulfilling Prophecies
BONUS: Complaints Vs Desires -
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Module 3: Self-Awareness & Discernment
• Why Everyone Misuses Apps + The 10 Tips To Use Them for Love• Non-Negotiables, Red-Flags & Dealbreakers
• Chemistry VS Compatibility
• Find Out Whether Your “Type” is Authentic - or a Trauma Response
BONUS: Understanding Repetition Compulsion
BONUS: How To Stop Transferring Your Past Wounds & Narratives Into The Here & Now -
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Module 4: Secure Relating
• What Secure Intimacy Really Means (Going beyond Attachment Styles)
• The Practical Steps to Successfully Navigate Your Anxious or Avoidant Side
• Navigating Other People’s Anxious or Avoidant side (everyone has one)
• How To Become Securely Attached -
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Module 5: The Secrets of Relational & Inner Security
• Deepening Into Connection
• Clarity VS Certainty
• The 4 Keys to RELATIONAL security
• How to deepen Secure Attachment to your date/partner
• The 4 Keys to INNER Security
• How to deepen your Secure Attachment to yourself and the world around you -
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Module 6: Triggers & Texting
• Guide: The 5-Step Trigger Processing Protocol
• The 5 Guidelines of Texting
• Why Over-Processing Over Text Is Killing Relationships... and what to do
• Social Media and it’s effects on dating
• Exclusivity & How To Talk About It
• Open Relating & Ethical Non-Monogamy (Why there’s no “right” or “more evolved” option) -
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MODULE 7: Opening to Love
• 6 Ways To Meet Someone Special• The 11 Questions
• The Questions to NEVER ask on a First Date• The 8 Popular Dating Myths That Are Sabotaging Promising Connections
• The Distancing Effect
• How To Stop Unintentionally Pushing Away Healthy Partners (+ How To Know If It’s Happening)
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Bonus Module: Authentic Confidence & Self-Worth
• Surprising Signs of Low Self-Worth In Dating• The Problem with Telling People to Just "Love Yourself"
• How To Deepen Your Self-Acceptance
• Steps to Reclaiming Your True Authentic Self
• Working With Comparison
• Navigating your Inner Critic• Turning the Inner Critic Into Your Compassionate Coach
Also includes….
✅ BONUS Guide (For Women): What Inspires a Man to Commit?
Uncover the psychology behind long-term commitment and what inspires it authentically so you can let go of any confusion or games.
✅ BONUS Guide (For Men): Being the Trustworthy Man She Respects
Become the kind of man a secure high-value woman deeply trusts.
✅ BONUS Guide: Top 10 Dating App Secrets to Find Real Love & Stop Wasting Time
Cut through the noise, master the dating apps with clarity, confidence, and intention.
✅ Exclusive BONUS: Becoming Securely Attached (40-Page PDF Guide)
Understand the true meaning of secure attachment and how to embody it in real life.
📋 Lesson Summaries for EVERY Module
Get powerful, quick insights at a glance. Perfect for quick reference and integrating the lessons for busy people.
There is more relationship advice than ever before, yet most people are still struggling to cultivate healthy connections.
Whether it’s push / pull dynamics, the Anxious / Avoidant cycles of pain or just attracting misaligned partners - these issues are even more prevalent than ever.
Why?
Instead of being shown practical skills that can be applied in realistic ways - people are told all they need to do is ‘manifest’ “The One.”
Instead of discovering how to navigate old fears or feel worthy as they are, women are told they should behave more “Feminine” to attract someone.
Instead of learning how to have healthier boundaries or how to feel confident in their Authentic Self, men are told they just should act more “Masculine” - which is creating even more shallow, unsustainable relationships based on performance.
Instead of working on one’s own wounds from past experiences, people are told the real issue is other people - other people are always the real problem, and all you have to do is stop dating anyone that is deemed “Avoidant”.
Instead of developing advanced communication skills for deeper intimacy, people are taught to use “I” statements and share everything as a “need” statement - which simply covers up the power struggle going on underneath the surface.
Instead of being shown how to collaborate with each other in a beautifully loving way, we are fed gender wars, animosity or lessons on how to seduce each other for temporary attraction - as if that has anything to do with lasting love.
It’s time for a new way. It’s time for something real.
What Participants Are Saying (Includes participants of Live Version of course):
Alaina
❝The course was everything I hoped it would be. My whole adult life has been a string of unfulfilling and painful dating experiences. I signed up for this course at a time in my life where I was feeling disempowered and deflated about my dating life and how to break free of painful patterns.
My favourite part of the course was the practical tools and scripts. I now feel more prepared and empowered to navigate the inevitable challenges that come with dating and relating.
If you are feeling stuck and unsure about how to shift unhealthy communication patterns, this course is for you. My only wish is I had this information sooner. It’s a beautiful gift to yourself and an invaluable investment.❞
Kelly Magleby
❝I found Serdar and the program at just the right time...through synchronicity or divine intervention. I was in a desperate space in a relationship watching old patterns unfolding … like witnessing a slow motion train wreck I felt powerless to stop what was happening.
The program first gave me hope. I felt like for once my exact situation and patterns were understandable and relatable. I could finally feel tenderness and compassion for myself rather than feel broken, like there was something wrong with me and I was doomed to continually being misunderstood and left hurting in relationships that would inevitably fall apart.
The program has provided the tools for me to approach my relationships from a new place...one of security, understanding and confidence..❞
Fenix Grace
❝Being a part of Serdar's course has been valuable, fun, and deep. There is so much thoughtfully curated and practical wisdom in the video modules, and you can tell that Serdar is an expert and embodies what he teaches.
This is by far the most comprehensive dating course I've ever taken. Serdar is a phenomenal guide, and he skilfully holds a loving, grounded space. I cannot recommend this course enough.❞
Nick Kenny
❝Serdar’s passion for this work shines through from start to finish. He brings his heart, his soul, and his years of experience learning and helping others into the course, and I am incredibly grateful for this.
The work itself goes to a richer and deeper level that very few coaches are actually exploring right now.
I uncovered so many insights into myself and the worlds of dating and connecting, more powerful and effective ways to communicate, and I am excited to bring these learnings into my life. In a sentence: the world needs more of this!❞
Kirsty Mason
❝This program was such a transformative experience for me. It’s helped me to rediscover parts of myself that I've suppressed, and understand myself on a much deeper level. My confidence and energy has levelled up, and I feel myself shifting into a higher version of self.
Serdar is such a beautiful, kind and loving soul. His calm, grounded masculine energy creates such a loving and safe environment.”
After this course, you will be able to:
❤️ Cultivate powerful, healthy communication skills - the secret to deep intimacy and successful dating
❤️ Express your needs & desires in ways that inspire other people to want to meet them
❤️ Stop the most common dating mistakes & myths before they sabotage a beautiful and promising connection
❤️ Identify & overcome unconscious, unhealthy dating patterns
❤️ Transform old communication habits that have led to disconnect, defensiveness or shut-down
❤️ Navigate fears & insecurities in constructive, healthy ways
❤️ Show up as your best, most Secure self - EVEN in challenging & triggering moments
❤️ Successfully handle relational anxiety + avoidance in completely new ways
❤️ Attract the most soulful, fulfilling, and healing connection of your life
$333 USD / €290 EURO / $515 AUD --- Full Access to all 7 Modules, Homework Exercises + Bonus Guides + "The Scripts"
The lack of healthy, balanced and grounded guidance means many people unintentionally end up repeating the same patterns over and over again.
This program is not just another bunch of pointless, fluffy ideas that ‘sound good’ but have no connection to reality.
This program is the antidote to the many myths and the misleading advice that keeps people stuck in unhealthy patterns - and keeps them away from deep, secure, authentic intimacy.
It’s easy for people say all of this is harmless, but after working with over 100 individuals in the last 5 years, I know for a fact that it is not harmless.
I have seen the pain and suffering that people go through in their love lives as a direct result of what is currently being taught, the superficial bandaid solutions being sold to people, as well as what our cultures are feeding us with.
Nothing impacts our lives more profoundly than the quality and depth of our relationships with others - and it all starts with the dating process.
But this program is even deeper than that. It’s about deepening our relationships to ourselves and towards other people.
It’s time for a new way to relate to each other.
It’s time for a new paradigm of deep, secure, collaborative & truly loving intimacy.
Meet Your Facilitator:
Serdar Hararovich
Serdar Hararovich is a Relationship & Intimacy Guide specializing in Integrative Attachment-based Coaching. He has been supporting private clients to experience deep, healthy and secure intimacy for 5 years.
His work is based on his unique synthesis of the principles of Secure Attachment & Secure Functioning as researched by Dr John Bowlby, Dr Stan Tatkin, Dr Daniel P. Brown and the ground-breaking treatment protocol of the Three Pillars Treatment process to heal attachment wounds at the preverbal level.
Many of those who he has assisted had spent years in therapy, plant medicine retreats and other modalities without being able to experience the love & intimacy they desire. By getting to the true heart of the issue and bringing compassion & clarity to decades-long patterns, he’s supported clients and course participants to overcome challenges that remained painfully unresolved for many years.
As someone who lived with Insecure Attachment & CPTSD for most of his life, he knows personally the crippling impact of old coping mechanisms and the unconscious roadblocks to deeper love that we all develop in life. The importance of effective solutions that are attuned & personalised to the individual - and which genuinely work - is a guiding passion.
After a long journey of healing to become Securely Attached (as verified by the Adult Attachment Interview), he is dedicated to supporting people in ways that genuinely make a difference - not just what sounds good or what is currently trendy.
Co-Presenter:
Jenny Mohr
Jenny joins Serdar as a Co-Presenter for some of the Pre-Recorded Video Modules alongside Serdar.
She has trained extensively with The Somatica® Institute and Brainspotting Trainer, Lisa Larson, with the Pacific Counseling and Trauma Center.
Her completed trainings includes: Somatica® Training and Somatica® Character Training. Jenny is also trained in the PTSD supportive therapy, Brainspotting, which uses bilateral sound and focused eye gaze to access the midbrain and release trauma.
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Yes - many people have taken this program previously when they were focusing more on themselves.
Whether you are currently celibate, taking a break from dating, or healing from a past relationship, this course will support you to feel confident & secure once you do re-enter the dating world with a completely new approach - one where the foundations are strong and healthy, allowing you to align with a completely new level of love, safety and true intimacy. -
The tools and skills in this course are designed to be practical & can apply to both dating & partnership -you will be able to use these skills immediately to experience more security, depth, collaboration, ease and harmony in your love life.
This is not just more intellectual knowledge, this is applied, embodied training work to revolutionise your relationships. -
Yes, many previous participants have been therapists or relationship coaches. It can be difficult to ask for help when we ourselves are helpers, yet this will benefit you not only personally but also professionally. You will be able to use your experience to hit the ground running. As long as you keep an open mind to learning something new, you will get immense value from this practical, grounded, yet advanced program.
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Nope - I (Serdar) stated at the beginning of the AI trend that I will NEVER use AI to generate any of my course material or any of my articles, and unlike the vast majority of other programs out there, I continue to live by that.
I STRONGLY believe that the depth of clarity, insight and transformational approaches inside this program can ONLY come from lived and embodied experience - NOT from more AI prompts.For that reason, everything inside this course is based NOT on 'what sounds good in theory' - it's based on what will actually transform your relationship & dating patterns for good.
If you follow my work, you know that I take this stuff seriously, and I have designed this program to be genuinely transformational.
FAQ
$333 USD / €290 EURO / $515 AUD --- Full Access to all 7 Modules, Homework Exercises + Bonus Guides + "The Scripts"