Live Classes will be a mix of:

- Life-changing Lessons
- Live Demonstrations
- Practical Exercises (usually in pairs of 2, split into breakout rooms on Zoom)
- Secure Attachment Healing processes
- Q&A Sessions with Serdar (bring your questions)

Everything is genuinely optional - you determine your own involvement in the process.

This will be a live, experiential deep-dive into the true journey of Secure Attachment.

// Starting: Friday, January 16th, 2026

(Thursday afternoon/evening in North America)

TIME:

• Australia (AEST): 10AM Fridays
• US/CAN (East Coast/EST): 7PM Thursdays
• US/CAN (Pacific/PST): 4PM Thursdays
• Bali: 8AM Fridays
• NZ: 1PM Fridays
• Europe/UK: 12-1AM Fridays (Replays Will Be Available)

Please note: If Daylight Savings changes occur in your time zone, the timing of the Class may change in your specific time zone, which will be automatically updated in the Google Calendar Entry for the class.

You can still sign-up. Replays will be available within 48 hours, and by the end of the course, there will be over 8 hours of material (+ bonus material) for you to keep for a lifetime.

If you can only make some of the Live Classes, that’s okay too - you con’t need to ‘catch up’ to make the most of the next Live Class.

AI cannot see you, observe your non-verbal communication patterns, hear your tone, notice your deeper attachment patterns, or track the micro-moments that shape your relational nervous system.

AI is certainly helpful in some contexts - but overcoming decades-long patterns requires more than helpful AI answers or reading books.

AI cannot attune to what is actually happening inside you through limbic resonance - nor offer you a 'corrective experience', something which is the true heart of actual healing work.

This course is designed to teach you the real skills of Secure Attachment through lived practice, live coaching, real-time feedback, and actual relational experiences.

This course is not just more "information" - it's about rewiring your patterns in a way that supports transformation, not just more intellectual understanding.

All the generalised "information" that people currently have - misattuned to them as a person - is often part of the problem, not the solution.

Yes. Many people who join have done years of therapy but still feel confused by relationship dynamics, still struggle with triggers, or still feel uncertain in dating.

This is about going deeper into developing & practicing the true skills of Secure Relating - including rare practices & tools that even my clients who are relationship coaches, therapists and psychologists have been blown away by how effective and transformational they have been.

Perfect. You will be learning and practicing the exact skills that make dating easier, clearer, less confusing, and less triggering.

These are the skills that make someone feel grounded, emotionally safe, and deeply attractive to other emotionally healthy partners.

This course will set the foundation for deep love, deep security and a lifetime of more fulfulling intimacy.

Yes. Secure functioning begins with you. It only takes one regulated, skilful person in a dynamic to change the direction of the relationship. When you shift your patterns, your partner naturally responds differently.

Yes. The entire framework is rooted in attachment science, developmental psychology, and the relational principles used in advanced trauma therapy (including the work of Daniel P. Brown, Diane Poole Heller, and others).

Everything I teach is delivered through a compassionate, integrated, and grounded lens.

All exercises are optional - and not in the performative "you can opt out if you want" way that still pressures people. You will be genuinely supported to honour your boundaries, your pacing, and your limits. There is no subtle push to override what works for you.

You are in full control of your healing process in this program. I'm here to guide, invite, and support - not to force, override, or direct you away from your own inner signals.

Instead, I'll support you in listening to them even more deeply and translating them in healthy ways - the securely attached way.

Please note: this course is not a replacement for deep, personalised trauma healing. That kind of work can only be done 1:1. This program gives you the relational skills, language, and internal stability that support your healing journey, but it is not a clinical container.

No - I (Serdar) stated at the beginning of the AI trend that I will NEVER use AI to generate any of my course material or any of my articles, and unlike the vast majority of other programs out there, I continue to live by that.

I STRONGLY believe that the depth of clarity, insight and transformational approaches inside this program can ONLY come from lived and embodied experience - NOT from AI-generated garbage.

For that reason, everything inside this course is based NOT on 'what sounds good in theory' (AI) - it's based on what will actually transform your relationship & dating patterns for good.

Based on not just the science, but on personal lived experience and the results of dozens of clients experiencing the deepest, most secure relationships of their lives.

There will be 5-6 hours of carefully selected Bonus Content you can watch before, during, and after the course to deepen your journey into Secure Attachment.

There will then be 8+ Hours of REPLAYS from the Live Classes you can keep forever.

In total, you’ll have over 13 hours of content by the completion of the course.

This course is still focused on the LIVE experience of Secure Attachment, so we are mindful to not overwhelm you with hundreds of hours of videos - instead offering high-quality, transformational, practical content that actually makes a difference.

Yes - only in the event of this course being cancelled. You will then receive a FULL refund - minus any third-party booking fees.

See Terms and Conditions for full details.

This is one of MANY misunderstandings about Secure Attachment.

Secure Attachment is not a self-healing process - it is a deeply relational process.

Becoming Secure requires the involvement of other people, other nervous systems, and other attachment systems interacting in real time.

Self-sufficiency is a useful skillset - not a way to live our entire lives.

Self-healing is a beautiful stage of a healing journey - not the end of the journey.

We all need help. Yet it's extremely vulnerable to ask for help - that's why most people will never become truly Secure.

They're stuck inside the spiritual ego that says, "I don't need help - I'm whole within already."

That's how people end up repeating the same cycles in their lives for decades.

This is how people start to become truly secure:

By feeling safe enough with the vulnerability of asking for help.

By learning how genuine wholeness comes not through self-sufficiency - but through each other.

We will explore the deeper nuances of this much more inside this course.