Does this sound like you?
✔ You are either single - or actively dating - and desire a deeply fulfilling connection in your life
✔ You have experienced painful dating & relationship patterns that haven’t served you, and it’s time to put those patterns behind you
✔ You are ready to become a true co-creator in your love life so you can align with the love of your life.
✔ You desire to embody your most Secure Self so that you can stop aligning with trauma bonds and instead with emotionally healthy partners.
✔ You sometimes struggle to express needs, desires or boundaries in a healthy way (either having no boundaries - or expressing them reactively)
✔ You have gotten hooked on people who were not a healthy match for you
✔ You have felt frustrated about how other’s choose to show up (or not show up)
✔ You are ready to learn the secrets of true intimacy and Secure Relating - skills for a lifetime of love
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There is more relationship advice than ever before, yet most people are still struggling to even form healthy bonds.
Whether it’s push / pull dynamics, the anxious / avoidant cycle of pain, attracting misaligned partners, or not trusting ourselves (or others) - these issues are even more prevalent than ever.
Why?
Instead of learning practical skills that can be applied in realistic ways - people are told all they need to do is ‘manifest’ “The One.”
Instead of learning how to work with mistrust or feel worthy as they are, women are told they should behave more “Feminine” to attract someone.
Instead of learning how to have healthier boundaries or connect with their authentic self, men are told they should act more “Masculine”.
Instead of working on one’s own attachment issues, people are told the real issue is other people - and all you have to do is stop dating anyone you perceive as “Avoidant”, as if life were that simple.
Instead of learning advanced communication skills for deep intimacy, people are taught to use “I” statements or share everything as a “need” statement (often doing more harm than good)
Instead of being shown how to collaborate with each other in a beautifully loving way, we are fed gender wars, animosity or lessons on how to seduce each other while we objectify each other (and ourselves).
It’s time for a new way.
Introducing
An interactive, experiential training program to support you with the real skills and tools to find, nurture, and keep the love of your life.
Start Date:
60+ Video Lessons - Over 7+ Hours of Structured Educational Material
THE SCRIPTS: 50+ Detailed, practical examples of implementing Secure, healthy relating to a wide variety of specific situations in dating & love
Module 1:
- What We Make Ourselves Available For
- Pacing Sexual Intimacy
- Grounded Intimacy & Non-Sexual Connection
- RBDSM (The Sex Conversation)
- BONUS: The Psychology of Self-Fulfilling Prophecies
- BONUS: Complaints Vs DesiresModule 2:
- Dating Priorities
- Dating Criterias
- Dating Apps (Why Everyone Misuses Them)
- Non-Negotiables, Red-Flags & Dealbreakers
- Chemistry VS Compatibility
- BONUS: Understanding Repetition CompulsionModule 3:
- What Secure Intimacy Really Means
- Practical Steps to Successfully Navigating Your Anxious or Avoidant Side
- Navigating Other People’s Anxious or Avoidant side (everyone has one)
- Becoming Securely Attached
- BONUS: How To Stop Transferring Your Past Wounds & Narratives Into The Here & Now
Module 4:
- Deepening into connection
- Expressing a desire to spend more time together
- Getting clarity on what the connection means
- The 4 essential components of RELATIONAL security
- Th 4 ways to develop your INNER Security
- Letting Go consciouslyModule 5:
- Texting Triggers
- The 5 Guidelines of Texting
- Social Media and it’s effects on dating
- Exclusivity & How To Talk About It
- Cheating - Both Emotional & Physical
- Open Relating & Ethnical Non-Monogamy (Why there’s no “right” way to relate)Module 6:
- 6 Ways To Meet Your Partner
- Best & Worst Questions on First Dates
- Successful Attitudes for Dates
- The Distancing Effect
- The 8 Dating Myths That Sabotage Promising Connections
Module 7: Self-Worth & Self-Acceptance for truly Authentic, Soulful intimacyWatch Anytime: You have lifetime access to the material, meaning you can use at any stage of a relationship (even if you’re just focusing on you for now)
with Serdar Hararovich
Conscious Dating
This course will allow you to:
❤️ Develop healthy communication skills - the secret to deep intimacy and successful dating (Please note: This is not another course about “I” statements!)
❤️ Express your needs & desires in ways that make other people want to meet them
❤️ Navigate fears & insecurities in constructive, healthy ways (no more push/pull)
❤️ Show up as your best, most Secure self in love & dating
❤️ Successfully handle relational anxiety + avoidance in completely new ways
❤️ Stop the most common dating mistakes & myths from sabotaging a beautiful connection
❤️ Identify & overcome old dating patterns that no longer serve you
❤️ Align with the most soulful and fulfilling romantic and sexual relationship of your life
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The lack of healthy, balanced and grounded guidance means many people unintentionally end up repeating the same patterns over and over again.
This program is not just another bunch of pointless, fluffy ideas that have no connection to reality.
This program is the antidote to the many myths and the misleading advice that keeps people stuck in unhealthy patterns - and keeps them away from deep, secure, authentic intimacy.
It’s easy for people say all of this is harmless, but after working with over 200 individuals in the last 4 years, I know for a fact that it is not.
I have seen the pain and suffering that people go through in their love lives as a direct result of what is currently being taught and what our cultures are feeding us with.
Nothing impacts our lives more profoundly than the quality and depth of our relationships with others - and it all starts with the dating process.
It’s time for a new way to date & relate to each other.
It’s time for a new paradigm of deep, secure, collaborative & truly intentional intimacy.
What People Are Saying About This Program
“The Conscious Dating course was everything I hoped it would be. My whole adult life has been a string of unfulfilling and painful dating experiences. I signed up for this course at a time in my life where I was feeling disempowered and deflated about my dating life and how to break free of painful patterns.
My favourite part of the course was the practical tools and scripts. I now feel more prepared and empowered to navigate the inevitable challenges that come with dating and relating.
If you are feeling stuck and unsure about how to shift unhealthy communication patterns, this course is for you. My only wish is I had this information sooner. It’s a beautiful gift to yourself and an invaluable investment. Thankyou Serdar.”
- Alaina
“I found Serdar and the Conscious Dating Program at just the right time...through synchronicity or divine intervention. I was in a desperate space in a relationship watching old patterns unfolding … like witnessing a slow motion train wreck I felt powerless to stop what was happening.
“The Conscious Dating program first gave me hope. I felt like for once my exact situation and patterns were understandable and relatable. I could finally feel tenderness and compassion for myself rather than feel broken, like there was something wrong with me and I was doomed to continually being misunderstood and left hurting in relationships that would inevitably fall apart.”
”The program has provided the tools for me to approach my relationships from a new place...one of security, understanding and confidence.”
"I recommend this program to those who are willing to put in the work to experience more beautiful and intentional relationships, and anyone who wants to really understand relationship dynamics, feel empowered, and experience the relationships they desire.”
- Kayenta
“I found Serdar and the Conscious Dating Program at just the right time...through synchronicity or divine intervention. I was in a desperate space in a relationship watching old patterns unfolding … like witnessing a slow motion train wreck I felt powerless to stop what was happening.
“The Conscious Dating program first gave me hope. I felt like for once my exact situation and patterns were understandable and relatable. I could finally feel tenderness and compassion for myself rather than feel broken, like there was something wrong with me and I was doomed to continually being misunderstood and left hurting in relationships that would inevitably fall apart.”
”The program has provided the tools for me to approach my relationships from a new place...one of security, understanding and confidence.”
"I recommend this program to those who are willing to put in the work to experience more beautiful and intentional relationships, and anyone who wants to really understand relationship dynamics, feel empowered, and experience the relationships they desire.”
- Kayenta
Meet Your Presenters:
Serdar Hararovich
Serdar Hararovich is a Relationship & Intimacy Guide who specializes in Attachment-Informed coaching & support. He has been supporting private clients with tried & tested tools of healthy, authentic intimacy for 4 years.
His work is based on his study of the principles of Secure Attachment & Secure Functioning as researched by Dr John Bowlby, Dr Stan Tatkin, Dr Daniel P. Brown and the ground-breaking textbook, "Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for Comprehensive Repair".
He incorporates these insights into a unique framework of healing & self-development that is adapted to be highly practical, grounded & enables clients to save years of time - by getting to the heart of the issue quickly, outlining the most effective interventions and solutions, and walking people through them step by step.
As someone who lived with Insecure Attachment & CPTSD for most of his life, he knows personally the crippling impact of old coping mechanisms and the unconscious roadblocks to deeper love that we all develop in life.
After a long journey of healing, discovering what helps people to transform - as well as what keeps people looping in old patterns - he is dedicated to supporting people in ways that genuinely make a difference.
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I created this course because I know what it's like to be unhappy & frustrated in my love life and confused about how to change it.
I spent many years looking for the answers in books, retreats, spiritual teachings and all the experts I could learn from.
At the same time, I went from one relationship to another not knowing why I kept experiencing the same patterns and attracting the same dynamics…or what to do about it.
Instead of helpful guidance, much of what I found was based on dogmatic black & white thinking that lacked nuanced & depth.
Whether it was teaching us how to spiritually bypass our human needs, calling everything toxic, blaming other people, or a perpetuation of the gender wars going on right now, it didn’t help.
Not to mention ideas about how Men & Women should relate with each other, which just meant I ended up performing a role that was never truly authentic.
That worked temporarily, but it didn’t get me what I truly wanted.
Fulfilling relationships are a fundamental human need - not something to leave up to ungrounded ideologies, nor the latest trends and clichés.
I still lacked these skills of healthy communication and I was full of deep mistrust from past experiences that kept me away from the thing I wanted most:
Deep, soulful, loving intimacy.
Since I had done so much work on myself, it was easy to point the finger at other people in frustration - saying THEY weren’t evolved or mature enough.
But as I came to realize, I had just never been compassionately guided back into my power to co-create what I wanted in my life.
I was just never shown the specific skills and tools to do it.
For years I had undergone a healing journey where I tried everything I could: shamanic journeys, counselling, breathwork, somatic healing, you name it.
All of it was helpful, yet it wasn't until I discovered the practical tools that I share in this course that things really started to change for good.
What I have discovered is that the secret to healthy relationships is NOT trying to be perfectly healed of all our insecurities, fears or doubts.
Instead, it’s learning how to navigate them together in powerful new ways.
What I discovered is that healthy relationships are a skillset, and we need to practice those skills to master them.
Without that, we simply default to the old ways we have always done things.. with the same results. That’s exactly what was happening for me.
I had accumulated a lot of awareness over the years, but it wasn’t until I learned how to integrate this knowledge into my relationships that things actually changed.
It wasn’t until I started practicing these specific skills that I could then start to enjoy the benefits of deeply authentic and secure intimacy and everything it offers:
The stability, the sense of being truly seen and loved, the harmony & ease… and the feeling that anything is possible, knowing there’s no challenge we can’t tackle together.
That's why I wrote this course - it’s everything I wish I knew 10 years ago.
The clear guidance and the realistic, practical tools that I needed from the start.
The tools that we all need to love each other well, to stop hurting each other, and to create deeper, more compassionate relationships rooted in trust, collaboration and understanding.
If this resonates with you, I’d love for you to join me on this journey in the Art of Deep, Authentic Intimacy.
Co-Presenter:
Jenny Mohr
Jenny believes that if we can release and integrate the shame, trauma, and misguided beliefs from our painful past experiences, and learn new ways to connect with others - we will powerfully transform ourselves and the world around us. Life can become so much more easeful and peaceful.
When we have our needs of love and connection met in a way that our relationships fill us up rather than drag us down - we can share our true gifts with the world and devote our magic to make this world a better place.
She has trained extensively with The Somatica® Institute and Brainspotting Trainer, Lisa Larson, with the Pacific Counseling and Trauma Center.
Her completed trainings includes: Somatica® Training, Somatica® Character Training. Jenny is also trained in the PTSD supportive therapy, Brainspotting, which uses bilateral sound and focused eye gaze to access the midbrain and release trauma.
Jenny co-presents all the Pre-Recorded Video Modules alongside Serdar, but will not be on the Live Calls due to personal commitments.
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FAQ
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On average, each module has just over 1 hour of video lessons. If you also do the detailed homework integration exercises, that would be roughly 2.5 hours of time each week.
However, the program is designed in such a way that you an come and go whenever it suits you. -
Yes! Many people have taken this program when they were focusing more on themselves.
Whether you are currently celibate, taking a break from dating, or healing from a past relationship, this course will support you to feel confident & secure once you do re-enter the dating world with a completely new approach - one where the foundations are strong and healthy, allowing you to align with a completely new level of love, safety and true intimacy. -
Yes, the tools and skills in this course are designed to be practical & can apply to both dating & partnership -you will be able to use these skills immediately to experience more security, depth, collaboration, ease and harmony in your love life.
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Absolutely not. I said at the beginning of the AI trend that I will NEVER use AI to generate any of my course material or any of my articles, and unlike the vast majority of other programs out there, I continue to live by the integrity of my word.
I am not against the use of technology - however, I believe that the depth of clarity, insight and transformational approaches inside a program like this can ONLY come from lived experience - NOT from a computer generated amalgamation of 'information'.For that reason, everything inside this course is based NOT on 'what sounds good in theory' or 'what sells' - it's based on what will actually transform your relationship & dating patterns for good.